#5 - Oakmont - From Generation to Generation

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Have you ever gone to sleep knowing that the next day would be one that you would remember for the rest of your life? As I crawled under the heavy Marriott quilt, and my head sunk into the extra fluffy pillows, dreams of church pews and lightning fast greens filled my mind. I spent most of the next morning at Mechanic Coffee Company, clacking away at my laptop, as Dad and Joe made the 6 hour pilgrimage from New Jersey to Pittsburgh. Around noon, we made our way down the brick-laid Allegheny River Boulevard to the gates of Oakmont Country Club.

Golf is passed down from generation to generation. My great-grandpa Herb passed the game on to my grandpa when he was a kid. My Grandpa Donald passed it to my dad when he was 8. When I was 7 years old, my Dad took me golfing for the first time. As he taught the game to my brothers and me, he would take us out to the course late in the afternoon to play a few holes before the sunset. We slowly fell in love with the strategy, discipline, beauty, exhilaration, and frustration of this beautiful game. But at the time, we were always just excited to spend a few hours of time with Dad.

Even though Dad set up the round at Oakmont, which opened around the time my great grandpa was born, it felt a little like we were including him in our adventure. The club was heavy on memorable moments. We were enchanted by the old-school locker room, where we loaded our gear up next to Penguins great Mario Lemieux’s locker. The unique putting green, an extension of the 9th green, introduced us to Oakmont’s notorious greens. I will never forget hole #1, where Joe and Dad putted from 50 yards off the green, or the church pew bunker between hole #3 and hole #4. We experienced the grind of the relentless course, concluding with arguably the greatest inland 18th hole in the world. After the round, our host, Dave, took us for a tour of the clubhouse, with trophy cases from all of the major championships, and the indisputably cool SWAT room. Yet what I will remember most is the few hours, in this incredible place, that I was able to spend with my brother and my Dad.

It is often discussed that families of children with special needs experience grief. Sharla Kostelyk writes, “maybe you imagined being at their baseball games cheering from the sidelines or pictured moments snuggled up on the couch together reading a favourite story. You may even have projected things far in advance such as their wedding day or high school graduation. No doubt you also imagined what you would be like as a parent and what you would teach your child.” This grief does not diminish the love for the child as they are. Slowly, families and parents will come to learn that while some of these dreams are gone, some of them can still be realized. Ultimately, the mission of The Quest is to create opportunities for moms and dads and sons and daughters to have those precious hours together on the golf course.

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We took 4 unique routes to par on hole #16. It couldn’t compete with the quarry hole at Merion. All square in the final 4 holes.

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